Jephthah, the Unwanted but Needed Man

 

Daily Reading:  Judges 11:1 – 40

“So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.”

                            Romans 14:12

            We live in a world that is broken by sin’s curse. Every life is touched by its unseen hand. Tragedy and heartache are common occurrences that affect every life and every home. We have all been victimized by the tentacles of sin, but that does not mean we have to allow victimization to define us!

Jephthah was born to a prostitute. His stepbrothers threw him out when they were old enough. Their reasoning was absolute selfishness. They simply wanted to keep him away from their inheritance. For unknown reasons, possibly embarrassment, Jephthah’s father did not even defend his son of a prostitute. Jephthah was forced to live in the land of Tob.

Despite his broken childhood and being forced to leave, Jephthah still thinks of that place as, “home” (Judges 11:9).  While away from home, he becomes a mighty man of valor whom God uses to set Israel free from the rule of the Ammonites and then ultimately, he becomes judge over Israel for six years.  

We all have experiences in our lives that we could use as excuses to do nothing. Jephthah chose to be used of God despite his circumstances.  In fact, the argument could be made that those very experiences are what God used in Jephthah’s life to prepare him as the mighty man of valor and judge over Israel.

1.   What experiences and circumstances in your life has God used to prepare you for                          the work He has for you today?

2.   Considering the truth of II Corinthians 1:4, are you willing to share your experiences                          with others who need comforted because they are now where you once were?

Trusting God's Direction Over Financial Gain

 

Daily Reading:  I Timothy 6:6 – 9

“Better is a little with righteousness than great revenues without right.  A man's heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps."

                                                                      Proverbs 16:8-9

The verses above highlight a crucial truth for men today: in our pursuit of financial stability and success, we can easily lose sight of what truly matters—our walk with God.

In this world where we are not citizens, success is often measured by wealth, status, and achievement. As men, we can feel the pressure to provide for our families and secure our futures. While it our biblical responsibility to work hard or strive to meet our needs, we must not allow financial pursuits to overshadow our call to righteousness. These verses remind us that it is better to have little while walking in righteousness than to gain much while compromising our identity in Christ and the integrity of our ambassadorship.

God desires to guide our steps, not just in our careers and finances but in every aspect of life. The Holy Spirit convicts us through the Word of God, revealing areas where we need to align our hearts with His will. We might have plans, but it is God who ultimately directs our path. Submitting to His guidance requires humility and trust. It means surrendering our desire for control and acknowledging that God's plan is always better, even when it doesn't make sense to us.

As we seek to provide for our families, let’s also pursue the wisdom of God, walking in righteousness and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide our steps. Our success is not defined by our bank account but by the integrity of our hearts and our obedience to God.

Follow-up Questions:

1. In what areas of your life have you been prioritizing financial success over spiritual integrity?
2. How can you be more intentional about seeking God’s direction in your decision-making through prayer and reading His Word?

Distracted by Discouragement

 

Daily Reading:  II Samuel 16:1 – 12

“Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”

                                                Joshua 1:9

            Do not be discouraged.  In this world you will have trouble.  For our light affliction.  For which cause we faint not.  Scripture says things like this throughout its pages which cross the span of time from beginning to end. 

There are a lot of things that happen in our daily life that can discourage us.  We should expect trouble to come because we live in a broken world.  In different seasons of life that trouble may look different.  The things that trouble children are generally not the same things that trouble the elderly.  A young man in his teenage years is troubled by school work, first jobs, and friendships.  A man in his twenties is troubled by adjusting to marriage or getting a better paying job.  The things that trouble us are generally the things that matter to us at that time.

            II Samuel 16 tells of David’s encounter with trouble and possible discouragement.  David had been faithful to the Lord but Shimei, a descendant of Saul was troubled by David.  Shimei comes out cursing David, calling names, and throwing stones.  The natural response of most men is to defend ourselves.  In fact, Abishai offers to, “take off his head.”  We have probably desired to figuratively do that a time or two when trouble comes our way. 

David’s response is a life lesson for us all.  “So let him curse.”  He doesn’t defend or correct the man.  In fact, David seems to indicate, by recognizing this man as a Benjamite, that he understands why this man sees it the way he does.  David finishes in verse 12 by considering the possibility that God will reward him for this affliction he is enduring this day. 

When trouble and afflictions come our way for simply following God, maybe it would do us well to not worry about what others are saying or doing, but realize people may see things from a different perspective.  Never allow those possible discouragements to distract you from the work God has placed before you.

Praise the Lord for Shrinking Church Attendance

 

This is NOT a Problem!

            Before anyone starts tying the hangman's noose, hear me out.  We can and should praise the Lord for shrinking church attendance!  Yes!  You read that right.  I am advocating that a 16% drop in overall church attendance is ok.  In fact, by the end of this article, you may be agreeing with me that it is good or even great!

            We can all agree that the world has dramatically changed since 1993; the first year a metric is recorded on this chart.  In fact, we can probably study the year-to-year shifts among the 103,603 people surveyed over the span of this chart, and find significant cultural events that led to an uptick or drop in weekly church attendance.  In 2001, America was attacked by terrorists on September 11th.  That event thrust us into a war in the Middle East.  This resulted in a temporary resurgence of patriotism, and church attendance jumped 2%.  The US population in 2001 was 285,000,000.  A 2% increase in church attendance means 5,700,000 more people attended church weekly in 2002 than in 2001.  In 2003 and 2004 the emotional response that led people to church dissipated and normalcy returned resulting in a net loss in church attendance (41%).

            The next major event would be the housing market collapse in 2008.  People were upside down on their mortgages, and many others were financially ruined.  Many were left to start over and rebuild their lives.  When people have nothing else to trust in, they will turn to their faith.  During that tumultuous time in the financial world, every day Americans were affected, resulting in a 5% spike in weekly church attendance.  However, that uptick lasted just until they could get their financial life back in order.  By 2010, things were once again returning to normal.  In fact, by then, people were starting to see the promise of a bright tomorrow.  The result is a long slide in church attendance. 

            Who knows if the church will ever see a resurgence in weekly attendance, but I say who cares!  I certainly do NOT!  How can I be so callous?  Isn't some church better than no church?  First of all, nothing I said was callous or careless.  In fact, I am making that statement out of an abundance of love for my countrymen just as the Apostle Paul demonstrated for his.  Romans 10:1 says, "Brethren, my heart's desire and prayer to God for Israel is, that they might be saved."  Is our desire for our fellow man their salvation?  If that is the case, then I would argue that church may be the worst place for them to attend weekly.  

            I believe it was Barna who also produced a study a few years ago where they asked people to articulate "the gospel".  That study resulted in over 270 recognizable variations of "the gospel".  Scripture is clear.  Today a person is saved by believing that Christ Jesus died on the cross, was buried, and rose from the dead for their sins.  This alone is the gospel.  There is only one way to be saved.  That means that at least 269 of those variations of the gospel are wrong.  We must also account for the possibility that all 270 were wrong! 

Where do you think people were getting these variations of the gospel?  Some were probably creations from their own thinking, but many were the product of what they were taught in their church!

           It goes without saying, but Barna defines, "Christianity" very broadly.  For polling purposes, they see "Christianity" as a spectrum that is not defined by faith in the death, burial, and resurrection for salvation.  With so many things being redefined in our world today, redefining and broadening the definition of "Christian" should not surprise us.

            Let's be open and honest about the state of the church today.  It is corrupt to varying degrees.  We should not be offended or surprised by such a statement.  Two thousand years ago, the Apostle Paul was inspired by the Holy Spirit to describe the church in the last days.  We have that inspired message in II Timothy 3:1 – 7.

This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.  Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith.

The Holy Spirit is describing the last days in the church through the pen of the Apostle Paul.  He says the church will be filled with men who love themselves more than God.  Their natural affection will have been corrupted.  They will despise those who follow God (do good).  Does this sound like much of Christianity today to some degree?  He goes further, saying men in the church will be pleasure lovers, not God lovers.  This is what “Christianity” has become today!  The Holy Spirit also says that men will resist the truth, and that while learning will take place, people will not be able to come to the knowledge of the truth!  That is a serious problem! 

            If a particular church, or a denomination is guilty of teaching people, and yet those people are never able to come to the knowledge of the truth because truth is not taught, then, out of love for my fellowman, I pray that that church or denomination’s attendance drops, not by 16%, but to zero! 

            Ultimately, we cannot lay this decline in weekly attendance solely at the feet of the world or the church.  That would leave people as helpless victims.  People are capable of making their own decisions.  Maybe that line chart reflects people doing just that.  Maybe people are smart enough to realize that churches are not feeding their spiritual need and so they are becoming disillusioned and walking away.  Paul warned of this in                          II Timothy 2:16 – 18.

But shun profane and vain babblings:  for they will increase unto more ungodliness.  And their word will eat as doth a canker:  of whom is Hymenaeus and Philetus; Who concerning the truth have erred, saying that the resurrection is past already; and overthrow the faith of some.

We must also consider the hard truth, that while Scripture tells us we have a heavenly citizenship, Christians often function as consumers, not as citizens.  As a citizen, you are engaged sacrificially.  You are surrendered to Christ and committed to His will.  As a consumer, you are engaged solely for personal satisfaction and service.  When the church no longer satisfies and serves you, you stop attending.  Sadly, many Christians have sold their birthright for a bowl of soup.  They have traded their citizenship for consumer status.

If overall weekly church attendance is dropping year after year, I once again say, “Praise the Lord!”  I do NOT care if people go to a church.  In fact, I prefer that they don’t.  I care that people are in A church where they hear THE gospel clearly.  I want people to be in a church where they are coming to a knowledge of the truth.  After all, God’s will is that all men be saved AND come to the knowledge of the truth.  Since that is God’s will, then it is mine also.  I want people in a church where men love God more than pleasure.  I want people in churches that are the antithesis of II Timothy 3:1 – 7.  As for every other church, may they shutter their doors.  Those buildings make beautiful art galleries and coffee shops.    

Redeeming the Time

 

Redeeming the time because the days are evil.

Ephesians 5:16

            Sullivan County Pennsylvania is the location of World’s End State Park.  I once backpacked out of World’s End on the Loyalsock trail.  My first memory of that trip was the vertical ascent up the trail.  The visitor’s center for the park is nestled in the bottom of the valley.  The only way out is up.  To my body, it felt like it was straight up.  Hands and feet were required for the first two miles as we climbed over 1000 vertical feet.  It was a test of manhood even then for my much younger body. 

            Throughout my life, I have experienced other similar tests of manhood.  On another occasion, I hiked up Pike’s Peak.  I was in my mid-twenties and an active distance runner.  It was a little over fourteen miles from the trail head to the summit.  Pike’s Peak is 14,110ft at it’s peak.  It is the only “fourteener” I have ever summited.  Oxygen becomes scarce above the timber line especially for those who are not used to those elevations.  It took me five hours to summit that mountain.  While I am proud of that accomplishment, I must confess that above tree line and probably 2 miles from the summit, I was passed by a lady who was at least in her 60s and probably in her 70s.  That part of the experience was quite humbling. 

            This brings up an important question in my mind.  How do we prove our manhood today?  In day-to-day life, people are looking for men that will “man up”.  They are looking for someone to step up and do what needs to be done.  Far too often that person is nonexistent.  When people look at you what do they see?  Do they see a man who has embraced responsibility, or a boy trapped in a man’s body?  As men, large swaths of our days are managed and controlled by someone else whether we work for someone or are self-employed.  In those times, most men “do their job”.  What about the rest of your day?  What do you do with the time you have that is not managed and controlled by someone else? 

            I have reflected on this question at different times in my life.  I have always been impressed with men from history, and what they accomplished in their lives.  What always impressed me was how much they accomplished without modern convenience, and how much they accomplished in a shorter lifespan than you and I are afforded.  Whenever I start to chew on this idea, I always begin to reflect on my personal time management.  As men, we need to redeem the time, because after all, we would agree that the days are evil (Ephesians 5:16).    

            Redeeming the time is something we should learn and apply from an early age.  We need to develop that habit from the start and militantly protect that habit.  Without vigilant oversight on our part, we become time wasters without even realizing it.

            Near World’s End State Park in Sullivan County Pennsylvania is the small community of Forksville.  Loyalsock Creek passes through this borough, dividing the community.  If you were to visit Forksville today, you would see a beautiful covered bridge spanning over 150 feet and connecting what the creek divides.  That bridge has stood the test of time, having survived several major floods.  The amazing part is that the bridge was built in 1850 by Sadler Rogers, a native of Forksville, when he was 18.  I find this a remarkable testimony to what man is capable of if he redeems the time he has.  You have to see the magnitude of this accomplishment.  Obviously, young Sadler Rogers was redeeming his time years before he began constructing that bridge.  His life must have been full of time spent wisely.  It was those experiences, stacked one upon another, that equipped him for that moment in his 18^th year when his friends and neighbors needed a bridge, and they entrusted their lives into the hands of an 18-year-old.   

            So, what could you accomplish if you redeemed your time?  The average male 15 years old and older spends 4.6 hours each day on leisure things.  That works out to 32.2 hours per week.  Of those 4.6 leisure hours, 2.75 hours are spent watching things.  That works out to 19.25 hours of screen time each week.  What if you redeemed that time faithfully?  It takes 70 hours and 40 minutes to read the entire Bible aloud at “pulpit” rate.  That means that if you only redeemed the screen time in your life, and instead spent that time daily reading the Word of God, you would read through the Bible over 14 times in one year!

            What if you reappropriated all 4.6 hours daily for an entire year.  You could build a new house each year and take 12 weeks of vacation!  You could build a canoe in 9 weeks.  You could walk from coast to coast in 15 months.  Let me step on everyone’s toes.  None of us are accomplishing any of those achievements on that time scale.  Why is that?  It is because we are wasting time.  Time that we have been told to redeem for a far greater reason than to build a house, build a canoe, or take a transcontinental hike!

            Ephesians 5:18 tells us, “And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess, but be filled with the Spirit.”  We may not understand what it should look like to be filled with the Spirit, but we all can get a picture in our mind of what it looks like to be drunk with wine.  In fact, Proverbs paints the picture in words for us.

Who hath woe?  Who hath sorrow?  Who hath contentions?  Who hath babblings?  Who hath wounds without cause?  Who hath redness of eyes?  They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.  Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.  At the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.  Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things.  Yea, thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, or as he that lieth upon the top of a mast.  They have stricken me, shalt thou say, and I was not sick; they have beaten me, and I felt it not:  when shall I awake?  I will seek it yet again.

Proverbs 23:29 – 35

Drunkenness is described as, “excess” in Ephesians 5:18.  It is saying drunkenness is a waste of resources.  Who or what is the resource that is wasted?  It is YOU and your time.  Actually, what that verse is fully laying out for us is to be filled with the Spirit because anything less is a waste of resources…a waste of YOU.  It is a waste of your life!  If we are wasting our life, we are clearly not redeeming the time!

Men, we must commit to surrendering completely to the Holy Spirit and allowing Him to use our time for the glory of God!  Imagine how much different your life might be if you traded a love of leisure or addiction to screen time for a love of the Lord.  How different would your marriage be?  How different would your family be?  How different would your job or career be?  How different would your church be?  What if today, you and I got serious about stacking experiences one upon another as Sadler Rogers must have done, so when we are pressed into service, we are equipped for the work before us  (II Timothy 3:16 – 17).

Why Good Men Do Nothing Part 3

 

Why Good Men Do Nothing Part 3

               I grew up in the country but not too far from a town of 60,000.  Despite the proximity, the outdoors was my playground.  My friends and I did not spend our days on playgrounds, sports complexes, or ball fields.  My time was not organized by a coach or an adult.  I was left to my imagination out in creation.  I once asked to play little league.  My dad left the choice up to me, but he gave me all the facts to make my own informed decision.  He said I could spend my Saturdays playing baseball all summer, or I could spend my Saturdays fishing with him.  I am forever grateful that I picked fishing with dad.  Those memories I will enjoy as long as I live.  I spent my summers running through the woods, and as I became more independent in my teen years, I spent most waking moments hunting, fishing, and even trapping. 

               While I was “doing my thing” my peers were charting their paths for their young lives.  That often involved playgrounds, sports complexes, and ball fields.  Don’t get me wrong.  There is nothing wrong with those things.  My point is that, while I loved those things (I was on a swim team one summer.), my experiences were different from their experiences.  Those differences set us apart. 

               At the same time, there were other differences.  One big difference was financial.  My school, and my classes were filled with students whose parents were higher wage earners than mine.  My family was not poor, but we were not in the same financial bracket as many of my classmates for sure.  To prove my point, let me give you an example.  One car I drove frequently, was a 1981 Ford Fairmont.  It was two-tone with pin striping and a moon roof.  My sister called it the “cowboy car”.  Did I mention that it had a moon roof?  I actually liked that car, and did not care what anyone thought about me or the car.  However, I had a classmate who received a convertible BMW for a graduation present.  It was a 1992.  That was upsetting to her because we graduated in 1993.  Her parents had the audacity to buy her a used car.

               The stark contrast between us did not just happen in that moment.  The contrast began in junior high.  It was in junior high that I began to develop my own sense of direction completely independent of what others thought of me.  At that time, I was the second shortest kid in my class of 300.  I was shorter than all the guys and girls.  I…was…short!  I grew almost six inches after graduation, and I am thankful for every one of them.  Being so short, my dad’s stadium jacket hung to my ankles.  I wore that coat to school all winter long.  I also wore a golf hat that snapped in the front.  Trust me, I looked ridiculous, but I did not care.  It was me. 

               In eleventh grade I had another “me” thinking moment.  My guidance counselor had me on track for the college experience in math or science.  I was taking advanced math classes and would have been taking college level classes my senior year.  I had my meeting with her and told her I was going to the tech school my senior year.  I also told her that just because I was good at math, it didn’t mean I wanted to live my life doing something math related.  I seriously think she cried when I left that day.  Once again, I was not caring what anyone else thought.  For the record, it was the right decision.  I never looked back.  It was the best year of school ever.

               What does my childhood have to do with why good men do nothing?  My childhood was invaluable in teaching me probably one of the most important life lessons all men must learn if they intend to lead.  It was not a lesson learned or taught in a textbook or classroom.  It was a lesson learned by experiences and strengthened every time I made my own decision.  The lesson I learned was, don’t let your fear of what others think impact your decisions.   

               As men of God, there will be times when we must make unpopular decisions or choose to do nothing.  Far too often, good men choose to do nothing because they know the right decision will be unpopular.  Far too often, men choose the popular decision, because the right decision is unpopular.  When we are so foolish, we are making the wrong decision out of fear of the people.  There are several historical accounts in Scripture that deal with this fear directly.

               Saul, the first human king of Israel, lost his kingdom because of this fear!  That statement alone should cause all men to reflect long and hard on our decisions made out of fear of what others may think.  In I Samuel 15 Saul is commanded to lead the army against the Amalekites.  The instructions are clear.  They are told to kill everyone and destroy everything.   

             Now go and smite Amalek and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass.

                                                                                                                                   I Samuel 15:3

               Six verses later, In I Samuel 15:9, Saul completely disregards the Word of God.  King Agag’s life is spared along with the “best of the sheep, and of the oxen, and of the fatlings, and the lambs, and all that was good, and would not utterly destroy them”.  Why would King Saul, a man selected by God and anointed by the prophet Samuel blatantly disregard such a clear command of God?  He answers this question when Samuel confronts him.  First, Saul claims obedience.

               And Saul said unto Samuel, Yea, I have obeyed the voice of the Lord, and have gone the way which the Lord sent me, and have brought Agag the king of Amalek, and have utterly destroyed the Amalekites.

                                                                                                                                       I Samuel 15:20

Saul had rationalized his decision as some form of obedience.  After all, everyone had been killed except for the King.  I’m sure it was some cultural custom that he looked to for justification of his decision.  Cultural or not, it was still disobedience to God.  This should serve as a warning to us to do things explicitly as Scripture commands and not try to blend culture and Scripture.  Many men and ministries have been destroyed by blending culture with the clear commands of God.  Personally, I think this is why the church is in the state it is today.   The church is busy in biblical disobedience because of its cultural acceptance.

               In Saul’s rationalized disobedience he also blames the people, but again tries to justify their actions by claiming the animals were spared to be offered in sacrifice to God.  How often do men try to do biblical things in unbiblical ways and think God will be pleased? 

               Samuel’s response are words we should all live by.  They are just as true today as they were when they exited Samuel’s lips.

                            And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord?  Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.

                                                                                                                                                    I Samuel 15:22

               Saul, left with no other recourse, admits his sin.  However, in his moment of broken honesty, he finally admits what drove him to such foolishness.  FEAR!  In verse twenty four, he acknowledges, “I have transgressed the commandment of the Lord, and thy words:  because I feared the people, and obeyed their voice.”

               As men, we need to learn from Saul’s failure.  Learning from someone else’s missteps saves us from our own foolish shortcomings.  Saul regretted his decision.  Ultimately, it cost him the kingdom.  He would be replaced by David.  We need to make life decisions based on obedience to the Word of God alone.  We must never allow our fear of what others may think to influence us away from that simple obedience.

               Fear of men causes good men to sit silently and do nothing, or worse yet, it causes good men to willingly disobey God’s Word!  The Apostle Paul prayed for boldness (Ephesians 6:19 – 20) because the other option was silence in the critical moment.  The other option was disobedience to God.  Disobedience is never an option.   

 

 

Why Good Men Do Nothing Part 2

                

  Previously, we began to tackle the passivity problem in the church.  Make no mistake, it is an epidemic.  Uninvolved men are commonplace, or maybe even rampant.  Your church is not unique.  The men you know are probably not unique.  You too, may be part of the passive crowd.  You are not unique either.  If we dare to hope to stem the tide of this problem, we must ask, “Why?”.  We, as men, must talk about it.  We can no longer afford to avoid addressing this problem.

               We are not victims of our culture, or anything else for that matter.  Victims are powerless.  We are men as described in Romans 8:37.

Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us.

               In part 1 of “Why Good Men Do Nothing Part 1” I concluded by asking, “Are you passive in the things that matter because you are active in the things that don’t?”  Far too often, we are guilty of the Demas demise (II Timothy 4:7).  We love this present world.  The Greek word for “present”, means now.  We, like Demas, love what the world offers us now.  This is a problem for us for two reasons.  First, Colossians 3:1 – 2 clearly teaches that if we are saved, our focus should be upward.

               If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.  Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.

Our love should be singular, and not on this world.  We should also be living in light of the future.  Specifically, Titus 2:13 speaks of looking for the blessed hope.  We should live our lives looking for that future event.  Instead, we reject that truth by our actions.  Actions, or in this case, passivity speaks louder than words.   

Loving the world is just one reason why we are passive.  Why else do good men do nothing?  Another reason comes down to fear.  Men are afraid of failure, the unknown, rejection, not being smart enough, not having the answers, and on and on.

I recently saw a meme with fear as an acronym.  F.E.A.R.  Forget Everything And Run. 

 

This one is an enigma to me.  Boys are born thrill seekers.  From an early age, we spit in the face of fear.  We dare to do first what our peers will not.  History is littered with men who harnessed their fears and did the impossible.  Men like Admiral Byrd, Ed Pulaski, William Clark, Meriwether Lewis, Alvin York, Chris Kyle, Charles Lindberg, Kit Carson, and Pat Garett.  I could go on, but you get the point.  If you don’t know these men, look them up.    

Men face fears for noble reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all.  Base jumping anyone?  Somehow, Christianity becomes kryptonite.  We, who are more than conquerors, are paralyzed by fear!  We become powerless to rise from our seat in the pew, mute, unable to speak.  We, who would scale Mount Everest, are afraid to involve ourselves in the spiritual life God has created us for (Ephesians 2:10).  We are afraid to trust God, who alone is worthy of our trust.  In fear, we offer excuses.  Pitiful excuses that begin with phrases like, “I could never…”, or “I don’t feel called to…”, or “I don’t have time in my schedule to…”.  Romans 8:15 is clear.

For you have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received to Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father.

Fear is not from the Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit gives us security and comfort through the Spirit of adoption.  We should also note that fear is bondage!  Fear enslaves us!  Christian men are more often slaves to fear than servants to Christ.

               Every one of us has a role to play in the Body of Christ, and none of us should view pew sitting as the fulfillment of that role.  We can serve the Lord with gladness (Psalm 100:2) or we can serve the Lord in weakness, fear, and in much trembling (I Corinthians 2:3).  Either way, we should just serve the Lord!  Fear is no excuse for disobedience.